I remember the day my niece, Cassandra, was born. She had dark eyes and dark hair. Her hair stuck straight up on her head like a
porcupine. I remember the flowered dress she wore to my wedding, still a
babe in her mother’s arms. I remember her running around double fisting
bologna at the Germania Club after my mother-in-law passed away. "Go! Go! Go!" was the toddler’s motto.
Cassandra made beautiful music with the Hamilton Children's Choir.
She and her sister Amanda filled the old St. James Anglican Church with
song. Cassandra helped her sister blow
out the candles on their birthday cake at their double birthday party. Around
the time she turned seven, she had just learned the formula for a joke and she
made up one herself: “What do you call a
girl standing on a cat? -- A statue.” Rob and I got a kick out of that one.
Cassandra and her sister munched on chocolate Easter bunnies at my
house on Thanksgiving Day 1998. I wondered how they lasted for six months
in their fridge without being gobbled up.
Later that year, when Rob and I were in the process of adopting our newborn
son, Cassandra suggested that we take Thomas to Grandma and Grandpa's house for
three weeks to hide out, just in case his birth parents changed their mind.
That's how much she wanted a new cousin!
Cassandra used to come for sleepovers at my house with her
sister. Rob used to take them to Lynden
Park Mall shopping sometimes. Their
favourite store was Claire’s. Cassandra
always did have a flair for fashion.
I remember Cassandra’s first communion, dressed in a pretty white
gown, her dark hair in ringlets. I
remember her grade 8 Graduation. I
remember her Grade 12 Graduation. She was the life of the party!
Tonight, to the strains of a pianist, cellist, guitarist
and three violinists, Cassandra got engaged. An ensemble of Kyle's friends played her
favourite song, "Heroes Get Remembered, Legends Never Die".
What happened to the past 23 years? Congratulations, Cassandra! May God bless you and Kyle in your forthcoming marriage!
What happened to the past 23 years? Congratulations, Cassandra! May God bless you and Kyle in your forthcoming marriage!
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