"When you take charge of your life, there is no longer need to ask permission of other people or society at large." (Geoffrey F. Abert)
In his book Goals, Brian Tracy devotes a chapter to taking charge of your life. He says that only you are responsible for everything you do. It is up to you to create opportunities for yourself to achieve your goals. Don't just wait for the right time -- act! If you stay in your comfort zone, you will never realize your true potential. Take the risk. Step outside of your comfort zone.
"Action springs not from thought but from a readiness to take responsibility," according to Dietrich Bonhoeffer. Taking charge of your life means taking responsibility for it -- the good, the bad and the ugly. It means accepting what can't be changed and changing what can be changed (the old Serenity Prayer).
Tracy points out that blaming others gets you nowhere. When you blame others, you give up your power to change. You become a victim rather than a victor. Don't wait for others to change. You only have the power to change yourself. When you change, often others will follow suit. For instance, the fiance who thinks she is going to change her future husband's bad habits is usually sadly mistaken. However, she can work on her own bad habits. Changing her own behaviour might be a positive influence on her future husband's behaviour.
I'll leave you with one thought: "If you don't build your dream, someone will hire you to build theirs." (Dhiruhbai Ambani)
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Read Take Charge of Your Life by Dr. William Glasser at http://www.amazon.ca/Take-Charge-Your-Life-Choice-Theory/dp/1462037437.